Too Much of A Good Thing Gets In the Way of Your Leadership with Gene Hammett at Core Elevation
- Leadership and Kindness Balance
- Transitioning to Assertiveness
- Embracing Self-Awareness for Growth
- Free Coaching Opportunity for Leaders
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In this episode, I discuss the complexities of leadership and the drawbacks of excessive niceness. Drawing from my experience as an executive coach, I illustrate how being overly compassionate can hinder accountability and effectiveness, using a client’s transition to private equity as a case study. I emphasize the importance of self-awareness and encourage feedback tools, like 360-degree reviews, to identify blind spots. Ultimately, I highlight the necessity for leaders to evolve by balancing firmness and compassion to effectively guide their teams. Tune in for insights to enhance your leadership approach.
The Double-Edged Sword of Kindness: How Excessive Niceness Can Undermine Effective Leadership
In this episode, I delve into the nuanced concept of leadership and the pitfalls of ‘too much of a good thing.’ Drawing from my extensive experience as an executive coach over the past twelve years, I explore how being overly nice or compassionate can hinder effective leadership. I’ve encountered numerous clients who, in their pursuit of maintaining harmony, have inadvertently allowed others to take advantage of them—accepting excuses for delays, subpar work, and unmet standards. While kindness is undoubtedly a virtue, excessive niceness can lead to leaders having to pick up the pieces, ultimately forcing them to do the very work they are trying to delegate.
From Nice to Necessary: Embracing Assertiveness for Leadership Growth and High-Stakes Success
I illustrate this dynamic with a story of a recent client, who recognized her tendency to be overly nice as she prepared to transition her business and engage with private equity firms. She acknowledged that this approach would not serve her well in such high-stakes negotiations. Instead, she sought to cultivate a more assertive leadership style, emphasizing the importance of accountability and clear communication. This transformation underscores that the next level of growth often requires leaders to let go of old patterns that no longer serve them and embrace a more balanced approach to their leadership style.
The Leadership Tightrope: Balancing Compassion and Assertiveness Through Self-Awareness and Feedback
Throughout our discussion, I touch upon the crucial aspect of self-awareness in leadership. I challenge you to consider your own balance of niceness and assertiveness. Are you allowing your compassion to hinder others’ growth? Engaging openly with your team to solicit feedback can be invaluable; this dialogue can illuminate blind spots and foster an environment where candid conversations are the norm. I also highlight the effectiveness of external sources, such as a 360-degree feedback process, for obtaining honest insights into your leadership style.
Evolving as a Leader: Striking the Balance Between Compassion and Assertiveness for Growth and Success
Ultimately, today’s episode serves as a reminder that in order to navigate growth effectively, you must evolve as a leader. By remaining open to growth and seeking actionable feedback, you can refine your approach and better align with the opportunities that lie ahead. The balance of being firm yet compassionate, assertive yet understanding, is key to leading your team to success. Listen as I unpack these themes and offer insights that can empower your leadership journey.
About the Host
Hi, I’m Gene Hammett. I’m an executive coach – I help founders and CEOs create company growth. After studying the leadership of fast-growth companies — the Inc 5000 — I have discovered how their approach to leadership activates new growth. I’m on a mission “To Change the World Through Extraordinary Leadership.” If you know you want to be a better leader, let’s keep going. ’m also a best-selling author, keynote speaker, and the founder of the Growth Think Tank, recognized as a top podcast for leaders by Inc.com and Entrepreneur.com. I love to write about leadership and culture that activates new growth. My work has appeared in large publications like Inc., Entrepreneur, and Success Magazines. ver 1,000,000+ business leaders, founders, and CEOs have listened to my podcasts, read my articles, or used my growth strategies to shift their mindsets to achieve incredible business results. Take your leadership to the next level and get access to a proven leadership framework to activate new growth for your company.
How Core Elevation Can Help You Create Leadership At All Levels and Grow Your Company
Core Elevation is designed to empower leaders at all levels, helping companies foster leadership growth and scalability. By focusing on key areas such as accountability, communication, and alignment, Core Elevation develops leadership traits throughout the organization. This approach leads to better decision-making, higher engagement, and stronger team performance. Companies that embrace leadership at all levels can expect increased innovation and faster growth. The program provides tools and strategies to cultivate leaders who drive transformation. Ultimately, Core Elevation helps businesses create a culture of leadership, positioning them for sustainable success.
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